Saturday, May 12, 2012

How I hated Greens - the leafy Vegetable!


If there was one vegetable I hated the most in my childhood, it was undoubtedly the leafy vegetable – The Greens! I still remember my tween-age morning hours when I used to lie down completely curled up in my bed, the screeching voice of 80 year old Greens-seller used to disturb my sweet dreams. The old lady usually shouted at the top her voice calling out the names of different varieties of Greens. My dad always praised the energetic old lady to skies who sold Greens at the morning hours. He attributed her strength at this ripe old age to her daily intake of Greens! Oh, not just that, he took complete pride in buying some fresh bunches of Greens from her. That’s exactly when I used to start thinking of making lame excuses to skip lunch.

After a rigorous washing session by my dad, the Greens made its way to the Kitchen. Yes the baton was next handed over to my mom. My mom who was (is) an excellent cook in traditional south Indian dishes was not versatile in cooking these Greens. She always cooked Greens with dhal. For a change, sometimes she might simply steam, mash the Greens and spice it up with some cumin, pepper and salt. My dad found these plain cooking extraordinarily tasty (and healthy too), while I used to feel sick to my stomach by just looking at that Green stuff. I wish it had some Masaala in it. But ‘Garam Masaala’ was (is) a ‘taboo food’ in our house!

Every time I was served these mashed Greens I made faces and of course both my parents pretended not to notice or approve my silent protest. I was left with no choice but to transfer the 'Green stuff' to my sister’s plate whenever she was looking away or when everyone was busy talking (which rarely happened). So, after eating one serving of cooked Greens I used to complain of full-stomach and run away from the scene.


Even after several years I had no stomach for Greens. In spite of my parents, well-wishers, relatives extolling the virtues of eating cooked Greens, I always had a look of hate when I saw Greens. I was not in the least worried state or bothered about my low Haemoglobin level in my blood or about my ‘skin and bone’ looks.

Years later, I had a mind-lift when I became a working woman in Bangalore. I was staying in a Hostel there. My hostel had an un-written rule that they could ‘never’ have an interesting menu to eat. Yes, weekly once, Chapatti was served with Steamed Greens (and no dhal) as the only side dish. Finally, I had to go with the menu and eat the Great Greens + Chapatti Combo! Because, I thought it was better to eat it than starving after a hard day. And there was ‘Only’ one person who was extremely delighted at me eating Greens in the hostel. It was my dad dearest!

After my marriage, one day my husband bought some Paalak Greens and asked me to cook ‘Paalak Paneer’. Though the fresh bunch of paalak impressed me, I didn’t know how to cook the dish. As usual, I Googled a bit and wrote down the Paalak Paneer Recipe. Yeah, I must say that I would have long become extinct if Google website was not invented. For me the website is nothing less than the Bhagavath Gita – Too sacred and influential.

My first hands-on experience in cooking Paalak Paneer was not that bad. I slowly acquired taste for Greens – but restricted to Paalak greens and that too Paalak Paneer! :) In Trichy where I was brought up, I doubt if anyone heard of the word Paalak. I guess it’s not Tamil Nadu stuff.  The aroma of ghee-fried Paneer pieces soaked in the Greenish gravy that is  flavoured with spices gave me a good appetite. Finally, I used to dig in to the bowl of Paalak Panner along with Chapatti, every time the dish was made at home.

My perception of Greens changed for the better after reading a Tamil book about Greens and its importance in our daily lives. I will write about it my next post. I shall also include some simple yet interesting recipes you can make with Greens in that post.

A Latecomer's Day!

Here goes a re-cap of a typical working day during my hostel life in Bangalore ;)

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Scene 1: In my Hostel


My Alarm rings on time trying to wake me up at 7:10 AM.
I usually set it @ 7:10 AM, so that I shall be awake at least by 7:30 AM. I love those short, sweet naps after the first Alarm ring and have never ever woken up on the first ring of the Alarm. So generally, I let the Alarm too snooze for a while...

One by one, various planned activities for the day run in my mind, trying to wake me up from my nap. With a great 'might' in my mind, I decide to open my eyes. Of course, I need a 'strong will' to get out of my bed in those misty cool morning hours in Bangalore. Still half asleep, I’m reminded of my dad’s advice “Wake-up before Sun rises to have a healthy mind and body”

For years, “Take-Advice-And-Forget-about it” has been my much-loved policy. So, I quickly brush aside any such advice that can possibly hamper my temper and set out to carry on with my daily morning routine.

When I’m ready to step out, I sheepishly look at the clock and it gives me back a sarcastic smile saying “I’m not surprised”.
Ah...I’m delayed to the work, as usual!
Well…What now? I start thinking of the contingency plans. How do I explain my delay today to my manager?! 
Oh…God! I should have got up early and finished off the morning works quickly! I regret for a nano- second.

Sitting in the Bus, I think of something called “Time Management” ... I yawn.
Is it too tough? I don’t think so.
How do I frame my time well to plan my day and perform my tasks ahead of time? I doze off in the bus…
Scene2 : At the office:

Hi Late-Gate! One of my team members greets me mockingly. "Late-Gate" is the title conferred to me by someone in honor of my frequent dealys to not just to office, but also for casual meets with friends. I sneak into my cubicle and turn on my computer. The desk phone almost frightens me with its eerie ring in the absolutely silent work space, where one can hear only a few mouse clicks.

"Come to my cubicle”- call from my manager.

“You are late again. Remember... You are on the Watch-list”. The manager says with a stern look on his already stiff-face.

“This is the ‘n’ th time you say this, Aren't you tired of warning me on this?" I want to ask him back, but keep quiet.



Scene 3: At the cafeteria


In my coffee break I ask my 'ever-punctual' colleague.
“Hey, how are you so punctual to work every day?
“C’mon Yaar Swetha..It is all about managing our time well! Pat came the reply!
Did she say that so easily? I’m puzzled.
“But, how do you manage time? ” I ask her again
“I do everything quickly on time…tuck tuck…That’s how I manage time” Her reply was full of mockery.
Sure enough, her reply didn't answer my question. Maybe she felt her time management tips are a closely guarded secret. Of course, when there's a cut-throat competition in every industry, it would be hard to find someone who will share the success secrets.
With some lapses and delays, the day ended quite well for me, with some compliments and some bitter comments. With the bitter comments running through my mind, I think I should sincerely do my homework..ie.to learn, how to manage time better.

Way back Home I formulate three steps that could help me do a better time management.

1. “Early to Bed Early to rise”

2. “No Diversion and More Concentration in the work I do”
3. “Learn and Master my work skills. This will help me do things in a faster pace”

I discover these three 'seemingly' simple steps and decide to follow them by all means .

Scene 4: In my hostel 
At night I set the alarm for the next day, knowing it's a weekend and go to bed.
Next day…
Alarm rings…I press the snooze button.
Somewhere from my brain I hear a voice “What happened to the 3 Time Management lessons you discovered last night “
“Er, yes, But let me sleep for few more minutes” I plead back.
“Wake up! Remember your 3 Time Management lessons” - Voice from the brain again.
I mutter softly, “C’mon, Take it easy...It’s a Weekend!!”! I fight back further thoughts; curl up on the bed with heavy eyes.

Ok..that good-part of my brain now only hopes that I don't forget about my 3 lessons after the weekend cheer!